Often when we close our partners is easier to express or demonstrate attitudes and interest details. However
sometimes with the passage of time and everyday life, we forget to pronounce up to I love you ...
A distance can be much harder to prove interest someone who seeks for other something extremely easy because the distance invites the romance and the sighs rampant.
More than once the little people that at first she learned she was having an affair with a young Peruvian internet I asserted: "How can you know if it's true that love you as sure? You can be anyone who is there behind some impostor telling lies, playing with your feelings for fun. "
And unfortunately that is the case more than one online, but despite much risk something more weight than any Comment worried or disbelief about my future was stronger and continued by his side.
He managed my full attention, 90% and 95% confidence loving expression on my part.
I thought no matter how unlikely or silly it was to believe him.
I wondered to myself how anyone could spend much of their income on international phone calls if only jugase?
How the voice behind the phone physically real as could lie about your feelings?
From the beginning we realized the interest each had to maintain the relationship.
fear that some of them will not want to follow desist and tired.
misunderstood At least anyone who was the culprit, there soon were written or spoken by clarifying situations.
In the distance you can imagine or think about so many things! If you leave something in the air without explanation however small sink can be short or long term relationship.
But how can fight online? I asked ...
As if you were face to face. Hidden faces and reactions through the screen, but sooner or later the person you're talking to, will see his real face.
course relies heavily on those involved to identify flaws, virtues and extreme feelings.
more influence in these cases intuition and cunning. Remove
afloat concealed the spirit and feel detective Dick Tracy still enjoy the love story can help.
As much as people who know about their relationship to the street when you talk about, gossip or tease you alone have the power to find out the truth.
Ingéniense fashion.
lying if I said that Pol and I spent 1 year and 2 months sending poems.
That was the beginning of our relationship because she woke up to the connection between us had to be something more than the trite boring and without depth questions that are made in the chats:
- What is your name?
- Where are you?
- How old?
- your measurements?
- How are you?
- And finally send me your photo and email address.
At the end of 99 when first entered the world of internet was not so commercialized and still could find interesting people looking to make friends true in this chat called mirc. Today do not know.
At that time I only knew the ICQ and MIRC as a way to meet people from other countries, but the truth was that others took me a little advantage in conocimiento de este tipo de relaciones sabían la variedad de chats que se pueden encontrar en los millones de sitios de la red. Vale decir que 4 años atrás no existía la publicidad tan abierta para estos sitios como ahora por lo menos en Colombia.
A finales de 1999 en mi ciudad natal Barranquilla existían escasamente 3 café internet con solo un promedio de 8 máquinas en cada uno. En ese año el precio de la hora tenía un valor de casi 1 dólar con 50 centavos.
Los pocos dueños de estos rentables negocios hacían su agosto con la propagación del rumor entre la población universitaria de que existía un nuevo método para conocer lo we can not see the obstacle of distance and money.
also the possibility of finding a site or thousands of sites where you could achieve all that information that the library had no school or incomplete university where you studied.
was a select group who have the money to access this invention already available among those who went immersed in the web of seduction technology.
met Pol harder the second day sailing with the emotion of every beginner.
Cecilia Days before my aunt asked me to accompany her to celebrate first anniversary of opening of site its online group of friends with whom he had contacted a few months ago.
her a woman of 50 years divorced and without children was the first in my family to fall into the addiction of the internet.
Toyita another friend, who had a computer at home and a daughter living abroad who excited was my aunt to have fun with this new game. She
prey to solitude and free time after work ended up being part of a club of men and women 40 and older who shared their lives and experience to overcome the troubles of everyday life.
Well that's how my aunt on the anniversary of his chat group first took me to an internet cafe.
rare I felt my aunt was so happy on your machine to communicate live with friends around the world and myself and boring as he expected, I finally sit down and try a conversation with someone the first country to me came to mind. Spain told me and there I found a certain Dominic with whom I had a short but pleasant chat.
was the first time in days I felt in better spirits and away from the monotonous depression and vacating it every day.
Checha remember that it took 3 hours in that place in front of that machine I only half for being my first time.
I thought so fun and interesting to returned 2 days later to take chance and see if he knew anyone interesting in that Mirc.
for things or destination networks such a Pol-harder dared talk while I chatted with a rogue pleased nick Panamanian merchant who claimed to be Tiger. At first I did not want to talk about but from the information we gave I finally decided and good as he struck me to write poetry and in the few months he had also started his internet connection had not found anyone to write poetry in a professional or serious.
And then when the excuse of poetry connected us.
He continued writing occasionally and to my need to have a new friend and feel no one answered your emails.
A few weeks after the initial exchanges of e-mails we wanted to make an appointment to chat but it was impossible to be at the same time on the same channel Mirc to my little knowledge of the operation of that program. We
agreed to meet on Friday at about 7 pm in the MIRC in the country of Peru, but did not say by that server.
That night I prepared at home if the first date with someone special, I remember being bathed, combed and arranged with the emotion that produces the first encounter with the guy you like and finally has decided to take you out. I arrived at the cybercafe
in time to connect, it looked easy for the MIRC in the country of Peru, but did not see his name, he could find. Despite
remain attached to the computer with illusion that his name is lit red letters on the screen waving ... POL-HARDER, my hopes were in vain. Very sad
chose to write an email to your email saying with sincere words how disappointed I was for having planted.
I returned to my apartment so mad at myself for believing in the words of an unknown Peruvian sending poems and greetings to my email address.
Only a desperate, depressed and naive woman would ever dream of having a blind date with a stranger who lived south of the continent, I thought.
at the reception in that mail that poured disappointment and loneliness had no choice but to surrender and enjoy the first reaction of interest that I wanted to express spontaneously.
Until that moment I realized how necessary it was beginning to be in my life that guy I wrote almost daily about his life and his work on his nature and his thoughts.
His response was swift and let me know the misunderstanding that we had faced that night, proved that he was there waiting as I read my name on your screen but it on the server and I on the other Vancouver totally different. That
The following email and revealed their interest in clarifying misunderstandings and start a friendly relationship even closer.
